sunday—the arrival
sunset:
fire circle of initiation
- speak your conventional name + possibly replace it
- share a howl + why you think you’re here
- discuss the agenda + rules for the week
- ritually relinquish electronic devices
optionally record a note of gratitude for your woman under the stars @ beaver dam creek
monday—get to work
after sunrise:
- cook communally over the fire hearth to prepare food for the day
morning:
- participate in the day’s farm projects
afternoon:
- participate in the day’s farm projects
- participate in kindness + respect training | session 1
- share your views on kindness + respect with your woman in a voice note
optional—attend evening fire circle centered on empathy
tuesday: proceed with diligence
after sunrise:
- cook communally over the fire hearth to prepare food for the day
morning:
participate in the day’s farm projects
afternoon:
- participate in the day’s farm projects
- participate in kindness + respect training | session 2
- identify examples of kindness + respect in your relationship that matter to you + share with your woman
optional—attend evening fire circle centered on non-violent communication
wednesday: assess progress
after sunrise:
- cook communally over the fire hearth to prepare food for the day
morning:
participate in the day’s farm projects
afternoon:
- participate in the day’s farm projects
- participate in kindness + respect training | session 3
- plan an act (or acts) of kindness for your woman + share your detailed plan with her
optional—attend evening fire circle centered on nurture
thursday: focus wisely
after sunrise:
- cook communally over the fire hearth to prepare food for the day
morning:
participate in the day’s farm projects
afternoon:
- participate in the day’s farm projects
- participate in kindness + respect training | session 4
- plan an act (or acts) of respect for your woman + share your detailed plan with her
optional—attend evening fire circle centered on presence
friday: show results
after sunrise:
- cook communally over the fire hearth to prepare food for the day
morning:
participate in the day’s farm projects
afternoon:
- participate in the day’s farm projects
- participate in kindness + respect training | session 5
- reflect on what you learned during the week about kindness and respect + share those reflections with your woman
optional—attend evening fire circle centered on gratitude
saturday: reenter
sunrise:
re-entry fire circle centered on self forgiveness
